Who is a refugee?

When I share with friends that I’m volunteering with organizations to help our local refugee population, I usually get asked one or both of these questions:

“Why are refugees in Nashville?” and “How did they get to Nashville?”

I’m still learning the answers to both of those questions and will answer them in later blog posts.  One of the first questions I to wanted answer was, “Who is a refugee?”  UNHCR defines a refugee as one “who has been forced to flee his or her country because of persecution, war, or violence.”  Most often, they will never be able to return to their home country.  They leave behind everything they know and arrive in their host country with few belongings.  They’ve endured a difficult past and have high hopes for a better future.

I’ve been working with two refugees over the past month.  One refugee stepped on/drove over (there’s a bit of confusion in the translation) a mine that blew up and injured his leg eight years ago.  Because of the damage to the leg and foot, he has had several doctor’s appointments to have X-rays, MRI and biopsies.  I’ve had the privilege of taking him to most of these appointments.  The second refugee speaks fantastic English and has therefore, gone with us to all these appointments as the interpreter.

I’ve learned a lot about both of their journeys from their country to the United States.  The injured refugee, shortly after the mine incident, fled his country of origin because he was being threatened by terrorists in the area.  He had to leave behind his wife and children and stayed in a refugee camp for almost seven years before arriving in Nashville about three months ago.  His, and our, hope is that from these doctor’s visits he will regain mobility and be able to get a job where he contributes to society and can save up money to bring his wife and children to live with him here.

The refugee who has been interpreting for us has also been in Nashville for about three months.  He came with both his parents and five siblings.  His journey started when he was about seven as his family fled from their home country to Yemen.  Over a 14 year period, they lived in two different refugee camps.  When I asked him about the camps, he said their living conditions were dirty, unsanitary and small.  Living quarters were cramped and food and water were not abundant.  He said it wasn’t uncommon for people to die from malnutrition or disease while living in the refugee camps.  Although it doesn’t paint an ideal picture of where to move a family, it was a place where they were free from persecution and they had a hope to transition to better conditions in another country.  Last year that happened for them.  They were moved to Romania to a short-term transition camp and then finally arrived in Nashville.  One of the older siblings will start an entry-level factory job this week. The younger siblings are in school.  Both parents are eager to establish a life here in Nashville where they can learn and contribute.

There are a lot of statistics I could quote to paint a picture of who a refugee is.  However, if you were to ask me, “Who is a refugee?” I would tell you it is an individual who out of fear of living in their own country has done whatever is necessary to find a better way of life in another country.  I would tell you a refugee is determined and resourceful.  I would tell you that he or she desires to work hard to care for themselves and those around them.  They are smart and have life experiences that exceed their years.  I’m thankful for the opportunity to learn from them while I help them get adjusted to life here in Nashville.  As I continue to learn and experience more about refugees, I look forward to sharing.

Until next time.

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2015 – What’s next?

Many of you have asked us what our plans are now that we are back in the US.  I’ve been asking myself the same question.  As with many Americans, the new year meant looking at life and evaluating what has happened in the past year and what will I do with this new year.

Shortly after moving back to the States I started working a “front desk” job at a clinic to pay the bills.  Allan worked hard networking with other project managers and friends in the business so that he could find not just a job, but something he would enjoy and could continue to strengthen his skills as a project manager.  After several months, he was hired by an International Fortune 500 company that sells high-quality replacement parts for just about any vehicle in the market.

With Allan’s career in place, we reviewed our budget and, thanks to being debt free, I was able to quit my job to begin dreaming and planning what was next.  I’m learning that the hardest part in this process is stopping long enough to dream and being willing to step out and try new things.  I’d rather know exactly what I’m supposed to do next and then immediately go do it.  (On a side note, I just read a fantastic blog on the process for finding your niche.  You can read it here.)  I’m not exactly sure what is next for me but I’m learning a lot by stepping out and trying new things.  As I continue to dream and venture out, I’ll share with you my experiences and what I’m learning.  (Sneak peek: in the next blog I’ll share my experiences in working with refugees.)

I leave you with this encouragement – we don’t dream and try new things because of what we need to earn.  We dream and try because of what we’ve already received:

I pray that your hearts will be flooded with light so that you can understand the wonderful future he has promised to those he called. I want you to realize what a rich and glorious inheritance he has given to his people.
Ephesians 1:18 (NLT)

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2014

I’ve written and rewritten this blog post in my head almost weekly since we moved back to Nashville.  The emotions were so thick, sometimes I couldn’t find the words to express the moment.  Other times, the emotions were not appropriate for sharing.  Today, as I reflect back on 2014, I attempt to come to some point where words can be expressed to share with our readers.  In 2014 we saw some of the best and the worst of life.  But isn’t that how every year ends up being: the best and worst of our experiences.  So what do we do with these yearly insights?  We learn and grow.  From the painful and the exuberant moments, we can learn what we did right and what we could have done differently.  We grow in faith as we look at the moments that we still don’t understand.

It’s been almost seven months since we moved back to Nashville.  In the midst of pain that is still difficult to understand, I can say this: I would do it all again because I believe we were doing what God called us to do.  We were being obedient and stepping out in faith.  I’m not so arrogant as to think that in some years, with wisdom and time, I may look back and see what we could have done differently.  But I can always say we obeyed faithfully.  And that is what we look to do in 2015.  We don’t know the adventures that are ahead of us, but we will attempt to walk in faith.

Thank you for your encouraging words to us in this last adventure.  We may or may not have more to share along the way but we will always be thankful for the time you spent with us.

Blessings for 2015,

Allan and Suzan

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Honored

One week from today.  That is how much time we have to get everything ready to move back to Nashville, TN.  Sort through our few belongings.  Decide what we really need and want to bring back and then work on stuffing those in our suitcases.  Finalize details here at the Heartline Guesthouse so that we set the next managers up for success.  Get our cat immunized so that American Airlines will let her fly home with us. You would think in all that activity my mind and heart would be too busy to even really process what is happening.  That we are closing a chapter on our life and getting ready to start a new chapter.  Unfortunately that is not the case.  My mind and heart are very aware of the closure that is taking place.  And it’s not pretty.  It’s actually a big messy glob of emotions.  Some of those emotions are summed up best in a blog recently posted on the Velvet Ashes site called Return.  In the midst of all that mess, the feeling I try to focus on is how blessed we’ve been to work and serve individuals that stay at the Heartline Guesthouse.  As I think back over our time here, I’m absolutely honored that God allowed our lives to interact with so many of His servants.  Our hearts will never be the same.  And for that we grateful.

Stay tuned for what our next chapter will look like!

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nine:three (part four)

Continuation of nine:three.

January 2014

Suzan's grandfather died in January.  She was able to go back for the burial and family time.

Suzan’s grandfather died in January. She was able to go back for the burial and family time.

Strange sights on the street continue to catch us off guard.  Yes.  That is a pig on the back of a moto.

Strange sights on the street continue to catch us off guard. Yes. That is a pig on the back of a moto.

The water tank on top of the Guesthouse (the source for all our water) needed cleaning.

The water tank on top of the Guesthouse (the source for all our water) needed cleaning.

What would January be without a Superbowl party?

What would January be without a Superbowl party?

The building of the new Maternity Center began.

The building of the new Maternity Center began.

Chicken anyone?

Chicken anyone?

Allan worked with a local company to create uniforms for the Guesthouse staff.

Allan worked with a local company to create uniforms for the Guesthouse staff.

Of course we enjoyed more fellowship at the McHouls with our Haiti community.

Of course we enjoyed more fellowship at the McHouls with our Haiti community.

And enjoyed time with teams at the Guesthouse.

And enjoyed time with teams at the Guesthouse.

We had our first "animal guests" stay with us in January.

We had our first “animal guests” stay with us in January.

These puppies were brought in for an orphanage in the north part of Haiti.

These puppies were brought in for an orphanage in the north part of Haiti.

 

February 2014

In February we went on furlough for two weeks.

In February we went on furlough for two weeks.

We started out our time in Nashville, TN.

We started out our time in Nashville, TN.

A fountain in downtown Nashville.

A fountain in downtown Nashville.

We finished up our time in Atlanta with Allan's family.

We finished up our time in Atlanta with Allan’s family.

 

March 2014

 

Allan put in a concrete countertop in our apartment kitchen.

Allan put in a concrete countertop in our apartment kitchen.

Allan also put up new backsplash in our kitchen.

Allan also put up new backsplash in our kitchen.

The Guesthouse was blessed to have a landscaper come in and work his magic on our front lawn.

The Guesthouse was blessed to have a landscaper come in and work his magic on our front lawn.

Another view of the yard with mulch.

Another view of the yard with mulch.

We had a young lady that had been adopted as a child come stay with us (her adoptive mom joined her) while she visited her bio family.  She is getting her hair done by a Heartline staff.

We had a young lady that had been adopted as a child come stay with us (her adoptive mom joined her) while she visited her bio family. She is getting her hair done by a Heartline staff.

We had a local company build a frame for our map at the Guesthouse.  This map is covered in pins, signifying all the different cities guests call home.

We had a local company build a frame for our map at the Guesthouse. This map is covered in pins, signifying all the different cities guests call home.

Strange sightings on the street continue.

Interesting sightings on the street continue.

More strange sightings.

More interesting sightings.

Walking stick or security gun?

Walking stick or security gun?

 

April 2014

April has brought beautiful flowers in full bloom.

April has brought beautiful flowers in full bloom.

More gorgeous flowers.

More gorgeous flowers.

We had our first mishap on the moto.  Allan received some scratches and Suzan received a pretty nasty muffler burn.  Both are doing great now.

We had our first mishap on the moto. Allan received some scratches and Suzan received a pretty nasty muffler burn. Both are doing great now.

One of our long-term drivers moved back to Canada.  We had a foot washing to send him off with our blessings.

One of our long-term drivers moved back to Canada. We had a foot washing to send him off with our blessings.

We had the blessing of spending two days with the pastor and his wife in the wonderful city called Jacmel.

We had the blessing of spending two days with the pastor and his wife in the wonderful city called Jacmel.

Jacmel sits right on the southern coastline of Haiti.

Jacmel sits right on the southern coastline of Haiti.

The beaches have beautiful sand.

The beaches have beautiful sand.

Just outside Jacmel is an area called Basin Bleu.  Amazing waterfalls and lagoons!

Just outside Jacmel is an area called Basin Bleu. Amazing waterfalls and lagoons!

This past Sunday, Easter Sunday, we went to the Sunrise Service where we gathered to pray over the city of Port-au-Prince.

This past Sunday, Easter Sunday, we went to the Sunrise Service where we gathered to pray over the city of Port-au-Prince.

Easter Sunday marked exactly nine months that we have lived in Haiti.

Easter Sunday marked exactly nine months that we have lived in Haiti.

nine:three

Nine months ago we moved to Haiti and in three months we will move back to Nashville, TN.  Our one year commitment to serving at the Heartline Guesthouse has gone by very quickly.  We have been blessed to be a part of so many lives and see how God is working in Haiti.  Over the next three months we look forward to meeting many new people and serving the servants that come through the Heartline Guesthouse.

We’ll keep you up to date on what our next God-adventure looks like.  Until then!

 

 

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nine:three (part three)

A continuation of nine:three.

 November 2013

We a group of Life Tree volunteers come and work with us for a week.

We a group of Life Tree volunteers come and work with us for a week.

They helped put in a roof top garden that will benefit the women at the Maternity Center.

They helped put in a roof top garden that will benefit the women at the Maternity Center.

After working long days for Heartline Ministries, they enjoyed great food and even better fellowship.

After working long days for Heartline Ministries, they enjoyed great food and even better fellowship.

While Life Tree was with us, there was an emergency blood transfusion needed for one of the ladies at the Maternity Center.  So they all loaded up to give blood.

While Life Tree was with us, there was an emergency blood transfusion needed for one of the ladies at the Maternity Center. So they all loaded up to give blood.

It was a joy and honor to have them working with us for the week.

It was a joy and honor to have them working with us for the week.

For a late birthday present, Allan got a moto (a little smaller than your American motorcycle).

For a late birthday present, Allan got a moto (a little smaller than your American motorcycle).

Heartline opened a discipleship bakery.

Heartline opened a discipleship bakery.

Their bread is amazing!

Their bread is amazing!

The Heartline Guesthouse started recycling cardboard.

The Heartline Guesthouse started recycling cardboard.

This company turns the cardboard into bricks that can be burned to heat up food.

This company turns the cardboard into bricks that can be burned to heat up food.

The Guesthouse also started recycling plastics.  One of the staff collects them in this huge bag and then carts it off to be exchanged for money.

The Guesthouse also started recycling plastics. One of the staff collects them in this huge bag and then carts it off to be exchanged for money.

We enjoyed a fantastic Thanksgiving with our community in Haiti.

We enjoyed a fantastic Thanksgiving with our community in Haiti.

 

December 2013

We created a festive mood at the Guesthouse with our little tree.

We created a festive mood at the Guesthouse with our little tree.

Suzan went back to the States when she learned that her grandfather was dying.

Suzan went back to the States when she learned that her grandfather was dying.

While Suzan was gone, Allan and others from Heartline went to a little village called Ravine Seche.

While Suzan was gone, Allan and others from Heartline went to a little village called Ravine Seche.

One of Heartline's former drivers lived in the village for three months learning the language.

One of Heartline’s former drivers lived in the village for three months learning the language.

A sweet family staying at the Guesthouse brought in shoe boxes of Christmas goodies for those living in a very bad part of Port-au-Prince.

A sweet family staying at the Guesthouse brought in shoe boxes of Christmas goodies for those living in a very bad part of Port-au-Prince.

The children receiving their box of goodies.

The children receiving their box of goodies.

Allan built a shelving unit for the workers to hang their clothes and have a space to put their personal items.

Allan built a shelving unit for the workers to hang their clothes and have a space to put their personal items.

We had the opportunity to take a moto ride to a town north called Hinche.  On the way we passed this beautiful scenery.

We had the opportunity to take a moto ride to a town north called Hinche. On the way we passed this beautiful scenery.

In Hinche, Suzan helped at a ministry where they feed and nurture sick little ones until they are healthy enough to go back to their families.

In Hinche, Suzan helped at a ministry where they feed and nurture sick little ones until they are healthy enough to go back to their families.

Allan went out near Hinche to see a school being built.

Allan went out near Hinche to see a school being built.

This sweet lady, Martha, is the one that invited us to Hinche.

This sweet lady, Martha, is the one that invited us to Hinche.

We got to spend time with another sweet friend, Catherine Gibson.

We got to spend time with another sweet friend, Catherine Gibson.

On December 23, we ran away to the beach for the night.

On December 23, we ran away to the beach for the night.

We know how blessed we are to be this close and love taking advantage of a night away.

We know how blessed we are to be this close and love taking advantage of a night away.

On December 25, our Haiti community gathered to enjoy food at the McHoul's.

On December 25, our Haiti community gathered to enjoy food at the McHoul’s.

And Christmas meal isn't complete with all the sweets!

And Christmas meal isn’t complete with all the sweets!

The end of December we had a team of dentists stay at the Guesthouse.  They worked in neighborhood serving Haitians.

The end of December we had a team of dentists stay at the Guesthouse. They worked in neighborhood serving Haitians.

The Guesthouse received a new stove after the old one kicked the bucket on December 31.

The Guesthouse received a new stove after the old one kicked the bucket on December 31.

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nine:three (part two)

A continuation of nine:three.

September 2013

We had the amazing blessing of taking a few days at the beach the first part of September.

We had the amazing blessing of taking a few days at the beach the first part of September.

We love the Caribbean waters!

We love the Caribbean waters!

We bought a birthday cake for a guest.  The "H" isn't that important, right?

We bought a birthday cake for a guest. The “H” isn’t that important, right?

We had an adoptive mom stay with us.  She was taking her son home with her!

We had an adoptive mom stay with us. She was taking her son home with her!

A little soccer with a basketball in the house is totally ok here!

A little soccer with a basketball in the house is totally ok here!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

After recovering from malaria the middle of September, Suzan couldn't shake a nasty cough so an X-ray was in order.

After recovering from malaria the middle of September, Suzan couldn’t shake a nasty cough so an X-ray was in order.

 

October 2013

When X-rays at one Haitian doctor didn't give us answers, Suzan went to another doctor.

When X-rays at one Haitian doctor didn’t give us answers, Suzan went to another doctor. (pictured here with Brooke Harris)

After doctor's visit, we toured a bit of downtown.  This was the big Catholic Cathedral that fell in the January 2010 earthquake.

After doctor’s visit, we toured a bit of downtown. This was the big Catholic Cathedral that fell in the January 2010 earthquake.

We had a missionary family stay with us for a few days while they bought all their household items in Port-au-Prince.

We had a missionary family stay with us for a few days while they bought all their household items in Port-au-Prince.

More interesting street sightings.

More interesting street sightings.

Allan got his first Haitian haircut.

Allan got his first Haitian haircut.

After weeks of coughing and X-rays, Suzan finally had to see US doctors.  She was blessed to stay with dear friends for three weeks.

After weeks of coughing and X-rays, Suzan finally had to see US doctors. She was blessed to stay with dear friends for three weeks.

While Suzan was in the States recouping, Allan managed the Guesthouse by himself.

While Suzan was in the States recouping, Allan managed the Guesthouse by himself.

The food line at the Guesthouse.

The food line at the Guesthouse.

Allan put in a water filtration system at the Guesthouse.

Allan put in a water filtration system at the Guesthouse.

Another interesting street sighting.

Another interesting street sighting.

 

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nine:three (part one)

It was nine months ago yesterday that we landed in Port-au-Prince, Haiti to serve at the Heartline Guesthouse.  We’ve been blessed to see and do a lot in the past nine months.  We’ve had the honor of serving a number of teams and individuals.  Here’s a quick look at the past nine months.

JULY 2013

Flying out of Nashville, TN July 2013

Flying out of Nashville, TN
July 2013

Allan's first job: changing the tire on the Heartline Ambulance.

Allan’s first job: changing the tire on the Heartline Ambulance.

Our first of many traffic jams in Port-au-Prince.

Our first of many traffic jams in Port-au-Prince.

August 2013

All 12 batteries that provide back-up power had to be replaced.

All 12 batteries that provide back-up power had to be replaced.

Our first big medical team stayed at the Heartline Guesthouse.

Our first big medical team stayed at the Heartline Guesthouse.

Samaritan's Feet group stayed at the Guesthouse.  We helped them pass out shoes to children in a nearby village.

Samaritan’s Feet group stayed at the Guesthouse. We helped them pass out shoes to children in a nearby village.

Allan playing soccer with the children after they received their shoes.

Allan playing soccer with the children after they received their shoes.

An attic fan was given to the Guesthouse to help make the upstairs cooler.

An attic fan was given to the Guesthouse to help make the upstairs cooler.

Allan, with the help of a visiting team, installed fans on each bed at the Guesthouse.

Allan, with the help of a visiting team, installed fans on each bed at the Guesthouse.

And the grey-matter tank had to be emptied and dug deeper.

The grey-matter tank had to be emptied and dug deeper.

We had friends visit us. Kent Griggs

We had friends visit us.
Kent Griggs

Our dear friend Katherine Harrison.

Our dear friend Katherine Harrison.

We visited friends from previous mission trips to Haiti.

We visited friends from previous mission trips to Haiti.

Another friend from former mission trips.

Another friend from former mission trips.

 

 

 

We continue to be amazed at what we see while driving down the street.

We continue to be amazed at what we see while driving down the street.

 

Well, that’s a wrap on August 2013.  In the next blog we’ll pick up at September 2013.

 

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Jacmel: A different sight of Haiti

We had the awesome opportunity to take a quick trip to Jacmel, located in the south part of Haiti.  We traveled with our pastor and his wife as Jacmel is their favorite city and they were able to show all the sites.  It’s not quite the same as being there yourself, but we wanted our readers to see another amazing side to Haiti.  So, we’ve attached a few pictures of our trip.  Enjoy!

 

Along the coastline of Jacmel, downtown area

Along the coastline of Jacmel, downtown area

Detailed mosaic stone work

Detailed mosaic stone work

View of part of the Jacmel coastline

View of part of the Jacmel coastline

On the way up to Bassin-Bleu, looking back on the coastline of Jacmel

On the way up to Bassin-Bleu, looking back on the coastline of Jacmel

Smaller waterfalls in Bassin-Bleu

Smaller waterfalls in Bassin-Bleu

Smaller logon in Bassin-Bleu

Smaller lagoon in Bassin-Bleu

Larger lagoon in Bassin-Bleu

Larger lagoon in Bassin-Bleu

Larger waterfalls in Bassin-Bleu

Larger waterfalls in Bassin-Bleu

Transportation for some in and out of Bassin-Bleu

Transportation for some in and out of Bassin-Bleu

Hotel in downtown Jacmel

Hotel in downtown Jacmel

Architecture in Jacmel

Architecture in Jacmel

Architecture in Jacmel

Architecture in Jacmel

Architecture in Jacmel (some evidence of the 2010 earthquake)

Architecture in Jacmel (some evidence of the 2010 earthquake)

Architecture in Jacmel

Architecture in Jacmel

We saw so many things and made fantastic memories.  Haiti is a beautiful island!

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Who stays at the Heartline Guesthouse?

When we were in the States about a month ago, one of the most common questions we heard was, “Who stays at the Heartline Guesthouse?”  What seemed obvious to us was unknown to many others.  So, I pulled a report to see who has stayed here at the guesthouse since we came eight months ago.   We’ve had:

– mission groups that help orphans by supplying food, shoes and education
– mission groups that do medical work (minor clinical, dentistry, optometry)
– mission groups that work in local churches
– individuals that are coming down to uplift local non-profits and missionaries
– individuals that are in the process of adoption
– local missionaries that are in transition to/from the US
– individuals and families that are listening to God’s calling for foreign mission work in general

Because of your support and prayers, we’ve had the honor of serving 2,500 people over the past eight months.  Thank you!!  We couldn’t do this without you!

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